Have you noticed that most arguments amongst friends and family are mostly due to misunderstandings or miscommunication. Is it because we just don't really listen to what each other is saying? Is it because one's actions even though well intentioned might become misconstrued as the total opposite of what it was supposed to be? I think if we really take the time to listen to what each other is saying, we would be able to avoid a lot of misunderstandings and grievances. Maybe the key to it all is just explaining ourselves better. A good explanation would definitely be better than a good excuse. And how do we start by laying out this foundation for communication? Why by apologizing of course! It might not even be your fault or you may deem yourself to think that why the hell am I saying sorry for I didn't start this, but by saying sorry, you not only get the other person's attention but you also put them in a position to actually listen to you and hear what you have to say. It may not always work but it still gets someone's attention to listen at least if even for a short time. So if we could only communicate better with each other, we would probably be living a less stressfull and more fruitful existence, what do you think?

xaries posted at 1:08 PM